Lesson-2- Save yourself & avoid the causes of Death & Misery

 As per great Mr. Chanakya policy or advice, An individual's life is most important for him, his family & nation. For achieving his goals or wining the whole world, his survival is necessary & he must avoid the things which can threaten his life. 

As per Chanakya , there are below mentioned causes which can spoil his life, make life miserable & moreover can become the reason for his death:

1)  Character less spouse :- For a decent & beautiful individual or a dedicated family person, If  spouse is having bad character & having illicit relationship with others, not taking care of family, having abusive nature, no respect then instead of continue this spoiled relationship, a person should take immediate action & get rid of such spouse. A rotten apple can damage the fresh apples in a bucket. The ground of a healthy relationship is based over the trust, truth, mutual respect & love. Once trust broken, it is irreparable. 

Both spouse must be truthful, loving & trustworthy to each other then we can imagine a successful marital relationship.

If still person thinks that he would continue relationship with such cheater spouse then it is a great mistake & consequences could be fatal. If there is a snake in house then an intellectual person should get rid of it,  else it could be life threatening.

Now, what kind of threats are involving? First of all, such decent person broke down & falls in deep depression after knowing such illicit relationship & can be suicidal. Secondly, Now a days, we have been hearing the news that characterless spouse made plan to kill other spouse with lover & even did the murders.

Hence, Make distance with the characterless spouse & get rid from it immediately through whatever the process may be.

2) Immoral friends :- Now a days, it is not easy task to be with an honest friend. we can better say that in current world, people become friends to prove their points & take benefits of other person. There are very few persons who deserve to be friend, therefore, we must be careful while choosing friend. 

Well, a person should be his own best friend but he never accepts it & trying to search for a good & honest friend. 

If you have a gem kind of friend along with honesty then you are very fortunate. But if you have, cunning, sinful & immoral friends, it is better to stay out of them otherwise that day is not so far when you will be stucked by them in wrongful activities which may make your life miserable & life threatening. Lot of news, now a days coming, a group of friends intoxicated themselves, did criminal activities like car accidents, murders, rape etc. and reached behind the bars & spoiled their careers & even lost lives.

Hence, moral of the lesson, be with good & honest friends ( but never share secrets ) & if you dont find it then be alone, you are your own best friend.

3) Bootlicker Servant/ Subordinate :- Whether you have a domestic servant at your house or at your business place and if you are in job then your subordinate , If he has a habit of bootlicking & you are enjoying such privileges then be cautious. It could be hazardous or dangerous to you. It has been found several times that such kind of servants/subordinates usually knows your secrets whether it is personal or official. We cant imagine a loyal servant in such world with full of cheaters. 

There are some set of examples through which you may understand what Mr. Chanakya wanna say. First example, At the home, if your domestic servant know the secrets where you keep your money?, where is the locker?, what is the location of jewellery? now you better understand, what could be done by him. Money is also a great motivation for changing mind to criminal ones. Better said, now a days, Not only money looted by servants even they murdered their owners.

Now second example, You are in business or any Job, You are enjoying privileges of bootlicking by servants or subordinates & he knows your business or job secrets like important passwords then you are easily get severely cheated by him. He can do blunder with your business & Job. If you have some sensitive kind of Job profile and your subordinate knows your confidential password then on behalf of you, he can do some unfavorable transactions due to which company suffers loss then you may face legal actions & recovery by your company along with job termination. Your prestige & reputation will be shattered & you suffered a lot. For an honest person, his prestige is uttermost important. He may withdrawn himself to deep depression. Be aware, believe yourself & never share secrets with anyone. Hence, Be cautious of bootlicking people.